Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love
I want you to think of your grandparents and the love they had. Its true that maybe your grandmother felt stuck with gramps, but for better or worse their relationship endured for some time and there was a golden period of at leastPa decade where they were completely dedicated to each other. Unless one of your grandmothers was a flightPattendantPon the first commercial jets and saw daily affections from new men, she was absolutely not cheating on grandpa.
Fast forward to today. What comes to your mind when I ask you to think about the concept of love in America? Did you laugh? Shake your head? When was the last time you ever heard a woman say I love him, even referring to her husband? The ability for women to love is being murdered, and the assassin is the smartphone.
Philosophers and poets have given many wonderful definitions of love, but to keep it simple, there are only two main components:
1. Mutual attraction
2. Lack of other options
You can argue that being in love is different in that it involves some sort of passion or lust, but for many centuries love has come to mean being attracted to someone while simultaneously not having better options. A married woman in the 1900s would be hit on maybe once a year by the butcher and that was it. The love she had for her husband was not disturbed unless he went off to war. Today? She could gain 30 pounds and be hit on ten timesPa day. There is no other tool that increases the amount of times a woman is hit on than a smartphone.
For women, the smartphone is a bridge to receive offers of penis twenty-four hours a day. With text messaging and use of apps that connect her to Facebook, dating sites, Instagram, and the like, your average girl is receiving subtle and not-so-subtle sexual offers every other hour. She even gets to hear a bell tone when a new penis is putting in his attempt. The smartphone is a perfectly designed machinePfor womenPto field dozens and dozens of penis offerings every month when in the previous generation your average woman wouldnt receive that many in a lifetime.
This constant shower of penis makes it absolutely and hopelessly impossible for a girl to experience love. She can experience passion, and she can be in lust for a short period of time, but within a year of any relationship, the sheer amount of cock still coming through her iPhone will make herPfeelPlike she didnt get the best man she could have, orPfeelPthat her life isnt as exciting as it could be. She will be unable to settle with one man andPbe happy. The pitiful option left for men to cope with these times is to game their wifeafter she took a vow to serve him till death do her partso that he can rise above the cock offerings that wont stop coming.
I know what my female readers are thinking:PWell guys have smartphones, too! They are incapable of love just like me!
And you would be incorrect. For men, the smartphone is a tool toPgainPa sexual option. Asking a woman on a date or trying to win her favor via text messaging or Facebook makes her a mere prospect. A potential prospect whoPmightPbe sexually interested in you, whoPmightPsay yes, is not that same as having guys at the ready immediately come over if you just say the words. The psychological effect of being offered guaranteed dick is not the same as being able to offer some dick. One is passive while the other is a numbers game that takes fifty times more energy for absolutely no set reward.
The minute a man stops using his phone is the minute all potential prospects dry up. If I take a week off from the game, my phone doesnt make a beep. I dont even need to re-charge it once but every three days. But if a woman takes a break from the game, or changes her relationship status to engaged on Facebook, will the cock offerings dry up? Will she stop receiving What are you doing this weekend? text messages? Of course not. Even when a man receives a commitment from a woman, he must still compete with other men as if his girlfriend is eternally stuck in a sausage fest nightclub.
Peer into a womans smartphone and youll find Las Vegas, nonstop blinking lights and action. Peer into a mans smartphone who isnt working on his game and youll find something out of a country Western with tumbleweeds rolling through. The only text messages he may very well receive are service notices from his cell phone provider announcing the newest data plan special. Love is dead only for women, not for men. If anything, men are much more interested in love and serious relationships than women are, but they cannot fight the culturePtsunamiPthat isPdrowningPthem. They want to love a woman who has become incapable of it because of her unconditional adoption of a machine that is only good for one thing: playing the field.
On a Friday night in Croatia I took a beautiful girl out for drinks. I weaseled her back to my place and we had sex. After she left, I fantasized about having sex with her again. I was excited that I could take a break and focus on her instead of having to chase new girls. On Saturday night, by accident, I met another girl in the club. We talked and kissed for hours. Her body was slightly better than the first girl, but she was otherwise similar. When I was woke up on Sunday and lay in bed, the girl on my mind was the one I met on Saturday night, not the one I had sex with. The girl from Friday almost felt like a distant memory, as if she got bumped out of view by the newer girl, though my penis was inside her less than 48 hours before.
For women who have smartphones, youre the one getting bumped. You get bumped down the list as more cock offerings come into view and the memory of having a conversation or date with you travel farther away in her mind. The smartphonePalonePchanges her behavior. It changes the way she dates and how she selects men for sex.
Ive been to many countries and its no surprise that foreign women with smartphones are much more similar to theirPAmerican counterpartsPthan the ones without. Her attention becomes more fragmented, her attitude increases, and shes less willing to put work into the interaction, symptoms that come from receiving an overload of male attention via a tool that seems to be perfectly designed for it. If a girl has a smartphone in hand, she is simply less able to commit to a man. She will experience constant malaise because of all the hot action shed hate to miss. When shes ready to cheatand she willshe will have at least five guys who would jump at the prospect without her having to do much more than send a How are you? text message.
If the changes brought by the internet werent disruptive enough, men now have to compete with smartphone devices thatPsimultaneouslyPforce them to compete with other men who in the past wouldnt even fall under their girls radar. Were arriving at the point where women dont need to lift a finger to get with men because so many desperate, supplicative men inflate her ego, worsen her attitude, and make her lazy when it comes to any relationship. Why should she put in work when she doesnt have to? Why should she commit when shes so obviously desired? Did you not notice that the last self-shot photo she uploaded on Facebook got 40 likes? She doesnt care if you get annoyed when she flakes. She doesnt care if you dont like her flip flops.
Soon every woman in the world will have a smartphone, and the idea of commitment and love will be a throwback, something that belongs in old movies. Until then, when Im talking to a girl and she pulls out some piece of shit old Nokia phone, I cant help but get a little excited. I know she will be warmer, I know she wont flake, and I know that Im about to have an experience with a woman that will give me an honest shot. But if she pulls out a smartphone, I know that shell just be adding me to her collection of penises. Shes the celebrity, and Im nothing more than a fan.